What to do if you can't get over someone?

its a weird situation, yeah. but you need to be honest with yourself. if you were with him, would it last? society would be against you. but realistically, its not going to happen. he's married. you need to stop hoping on him, and start looking for a guy with similar traits, but hopefully closer to your age and more accessible. if you keep thinking about this one, unattainable guy, youll start missing out on others that you really have a chance with. dont stop your life for someone who is living theirs.